Posted by Karen Hadalski at 9 February 2012

Category: Reincarnation

I’ve received several emails from readers during the past 2 weeks on the possibility of reconnecting with a pre-deceased loved one and the difference between a soul mate and a twin soul.

With regard to the former:  Since energy never dies, just transforms; and, since Love is the most powerful “connector” of distinct energy fields, when we lose a loved one, this is just a physical separation. The spiritual bond endures and can be accessed through the heart and Mind–rather than the human brain and reason–by way of prayer, meditation, and contemplation.

A method available to access the history of your soul’s involvement with another person is to locate a licensed, professional hypnotic life-regressionist.  Personally, I wouldn’t allow myself to be hypnotized/regressed by anyone not possessing a M.D. in Psychiatry or a Ph.D. in Psychology.  When you give-over so much self-control, you want to be absolutely CERTAIN that your mind and spirit are in capable, ethical hands.  The only time I have ever experienced hypnosis was when I was in the audience, listening to a speaker who demonstrated his process with a subject on stage! Once I realized how susceptible I was to the “suggestions” of hypnotists, I resolved to never turn over so much self-control to anyone.  Yet, When I read about the work Dr. Micheal Newton has done regressing patients who were in the Theta state of consciousness, I do think I would at least consider turning myself over to someone trained in his methodology–possessing impeccable credentials and references–if ever there arose a  subject I felt a deep need to explore and could not find resolution by going within.

Another path to exploring the history of your connection with others is to obtain a Life-Reading. People who offer these refer to themselves as mystics, seers, sensitives, and, most often, psychics. “Psychic” derives form the Greek, psychikos, and simply means “of the soul.”  But, again, you should do your homework before obtaining a life reading from anyone.  Because I am positively impressed with the body of work of the early 20th century psychic Edgar Cayce, I went through the Association for Research and Enlightenment when searching for a person to do a life reading on myself.  And, when I received it–from a distance and via tape–there was no doubt in my mind that the soul history being accessed and “downloaded” from the Akashic Records was my own.  It was too detailed and specific to question; and, it was extremely edifying and helpful to me in tying together multifarious life-experiences, relationships, propensities, and past-life memories.

The subject of soul mates and twin souls is one I touch upon in my novella, Enduring Destiny, and will discuss in next week’s blog.

In the meantime, never fear! The bonds of love are strong, transcend materiality, and will only be broken if you and/or your beloved choose to break them.

 

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 3 February 2012

Category: Writing

No analogy fits better than”giving birth” where writing and publishing a book is concerned.
First you conceive an idea. Then, over time, it gestates, becomes more organized and complex. Eventually it takes on a unique identity of its own, but is still dependent upon you for nourishment and a safe place to develop. Finally it “comes out” as a full-blown manuscript.

But this is just the beginning of its physical life. It now needs to be “dressed” properly–both in content and cover. Then comes the formal announcement of its arrival–the press release and publicity;the only way others will come to know of its existence. Finally, it needs to be distributed and well-stocked when and where it is expected to be available.

As the “mother” of my new book, Karma: How To View it, Use It, and Lose It, I’ve done my job. Its formal release date was yesterday, 2/2/12. Now its up to readers interested in the subject of my work to seek it out–AND–most importantly, it is up to my publisher to make sure it is where its supposed to be when they do. Let’s see how things go…

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 26 January 2012

Category: reincarnation/karma

NDA’s provide a fascinating avenue for research into the validity of reincarnation.  Modern medical and technological advances have made it possible to revive countless people who had been pronounced clinically dead.  As a result, scores have passed through the “tunnel of light” and come back to tell their stories.  Organizations such as  The International Association for Near-Death Studies in Connecticut have sprung up to document and research the experiences of these survivors, as well as to give voice to their reports.

Many cities have local branches of the IANDS and present seminars which include first hand accounts by these survivors.  I attended one in Virginia Beach, and was astounded by the specificity and eloquence of a near death experience presented by Mellen-Thomas Benedict (described in chapter 3 of Karma:How To View It, Use It, and Lose It).  You can become acquainted with Mr. Benedict and his current work by visiting:  www.mellen-thomas.com.

The respected psychiatrist and world-renowned authority and counselor on death and dying, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, states this in the chapter titled, “Death as Part of My Own Personal Life” in her book: DEATH, The Final Stage of Growth:  “ This work with dying patients has also helped me to find my own religious identity, to know there is life after death, and to know that we will be reborn one day in order to complete the tasks we have not been able or willing to complete in this lifetime…”

With modern advances in medicine, technology, research methodologies, hypnotic regression when in the Theta state of consciousness, documentation/validation of spontaneous past-life remembrances,  there is no longer a need to remain in total darkness where answers to the age-old questions: “Why are we here?” and “What happens to us after we die?” are concerned–unless, of course, you choose to.

 

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 19 January 2012

Category: karma, Reincarnation

Hypnotic regression, conducted by qualified professionals, has become an increasingly popular tool for discovering one’s life purpose.  I especially appreciate the accounts presented by Dr. Michael Newton in his books:  Journey of Souls, Destiny of Souls, and Life Between Lives, of clients who enter the Theta state of consciousness and remember not only specific past lives, but also what they do between incarnations.

In virtually all cases, these “subjects” reveal a clear understanding of why they incarnated; what karma, lessons, and relationships they have chosen to work through; and what steps they hope to accomplish where fulfilling their ultimate spiritual goal is concerned.  However, they all state that we pass through a “veil of forgetfulness” when we are born and do not carry with us these memories and intentions at a conscious level.  This is why I believe in, and emphasize in Karma: How To View It, Use It, and Lose It, the importance of learning to perform a personal “life anatomy.” Once we learn how to view ourselves and our life circumstances objectively–as a “participant-observer”–everything from physical, mental, and psychological attributes to gender, race, ethnicity, family, and culture it becomes possible to discern (at least obviously) what it is we have undertaken to work through and accomplish this time around.  While we might decide that we do want to experience hypnotic regression or obtain a professional life reading at some point, this seems, to me, a good, common-sense place to begin.  Try it out!

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 12 January 2012

Category: Reincarnation

Many wonder, “What proof is there that reincarnation is a ‘fact of life’?”  In Karma:How To View It, Use It, and Lose It, I refer to various organizations, individuals, and traditions that have been researching and approaching the tenets of reincarnation and karma from different starting points and perspectives–one of these being insights gleaned from individual mystics and “seers.”

I currently live in Virginia Beach, Va. which is home to Edgar Cayce’s Association for Research and Enlightenment (A.R.E.).  This is the city in which Cayce (1877-1945), one of the world’s most credible psychics, lived, gave many of his well-documented “life readings,” and where the library of these readings, Atlantic University, the Cayce-Reilly school of massotherapy, and the A.R.E. conference center are located, today.  They also run a summer camp for children, teens, families, and adults in the mountains of Virginia. Attending a weekend conference at the Beach, a week-long camp session , or exploring the Cayce readings/teachings online at: are@edgarcayce.org are all sound options if you are interested in receiving a good, reliable introduction to the subject and methodology employed to obtain life readings. Cayce gave his “Readings” by going into a trance-like state, “seeing” the person’s body, and “reading” their soul’s history from the “Akashic Records,” which I can only describe as a kind of permanent library of all that ever was located in the etheric realm.

Additional research being done to expand human knowledge about, or “prove” that reincarnation really is a fact of life, is being done in the fields of documented near death experiences (NDE’s), spontaneous past life recalls (especially by children), and hypnotic regression conducted by therapists and other licensed professionals. Each will be touched upon in future blogs and are explored more fully in my book.

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 5 January 2012

Category: animals/pets

Last winter, during the holidays and a rare Virginia snow storm, we lost our kitten, Chance, for 16 agonizing days.  He was a small, thin rescue cat; not yet a year old; and had never been outside the warmth and safety of his house. He “escaped” by darting between the legs of our dog as I let her into the backyard, through our picket fence, and into the night.  After employing every recovery method known to man–search & rescue dogs; ads; posters; a 500 call Lost Pet Amber Alert; daily check-ins at every animal shelter, rescue, and hospital within a 10 mile radius; and non-stop scouring of three neighborhoods and nearby woods; it was the simplest, most common-sense actions which finally brought Chance back to us.  We sprinkled what was left of his previously used litter on top of the ice and snow around the perimeter of our house so that he could “smell it out,” and left the garage door open enough for him to squeeze under it and devour the refreshed food we set- out every evening. Finally, our confused, disoriented, dirty and even skinnier kitten found his way home. Where he had been and how he survived is both a mystery and a miracle.

Yesterday, almost a year to the day, and during another unusually frigid bout of weather, he disappeared again. But, this time, we had no idea how. I had stroked him before going to bed the night before and my husband gave him a treat before leaving for work in the morning.  Yet, when it was breakfast time, he didn’t rush to his bowl along with his sister, Lily, as he did every other day. While shaking the “Greenies” bag, I rushed through every room in the house calling his name and looking behind, in, and on top of every piece of furniture until a familiar, sinking feeling settled-in.  I then began an outdoor search.

After returning home to rest and warm- up, I looked into the eyes of my worried pup, Odin, and asked: “Where is Chance?!”  He immediately began to sniff and scurry around, finally halting and pawing at the linen closet door.  When I opened it, there he was: peacefully snoozing behind a tall stack of towels on the top shelf. What a relief!! No one remembers opening or closing that door and Chance had never before exhibited any interest in exploring that space; yet, I should have thought to open every single door and drawer before concluding my inside search.  Cats are quick, quiet, endlessly curious, and mysterious creatures. This incident served to remind us that we had let-up a little on the precautions we had put into place after Chance’s return last year, and to get busy reinforcing these.

It is during the first month of every new year that we seem to have the most energy and resolve to make productive, positive changes in our lives and lifestyles.  While doing so this year, don’t forget the animals.  How impoverished, predictable, and boring life would be without them!

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 29 December 2011

Category: 2012

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The thing I like most about embarking on a new year isn’t the dancing, the champagne, the Mummer’s Parade (if you live in Philly), or “auld lang syne.” Believe it or not, my favorite thing is composing a new list of Resolutions.  I think a reason many dread, or avoid, this tradition is because they either remember only those intentions they failed to achieve in the preceding year; or, they forget what they wrote altogether!

About twenty years ago my Writers’ Group invited a guest speaker (whose name I have, unfortunately, forgotten) to conduct a session on the importance of being extremely clear about goals, intentions and dreams before giving these a life of their own by writing them down. Then, after becoming crystal clear, to be as detailed and specific as possible when noting what you want to accomplish; include the steps and resources necessary to bring your goal to fruition; and, include a precise time-line in which every step toward turning your dream into a reality will take place.

Shortly thereafter, I read an article about how one’s life goals become more feasible and doable if broken down into immediate (achievable within six months), short-term (achievable within five years), and lifetime goals–a sophisticated “Bucket List.”

When I bagan to marry these two methods, the results were astounding.  Year by year, more and greater resolutions were completed; enough incremental progress was achieved with short term goals to move them into the “immediate” category; and, with lifetime goals, to bump them into the “short term” category! Because we’ve been hearing so much ” hype,” and reading so many “predictions,” about 2012–a subject I will write more about in future posts–this might be the perfect time to get serious about setting and completing personal goals.  I mean, if December 21, 2012 really does become the last day on Earth, as we know it, what better time to consider the Bucket List most of us don’t begin to think about until we become ill or reach a landmark birthday? Then again, if December 21st comes and goes just like every other day, what will have been lost by getting clear and being honest with ourselves about personal priorities, unfulfilled dreams, and the legacy we will leave behind–to those we love, and, as human beings?

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 22 December 2011

Category: karma

The law of reciprocity–karma–is always at play in our lives, whether we are aware of it or not.  This Christmas season could be a perfect time to observe the wonder of its workings.  2011 has been a tough financial year for many.  Yet, precisely because of this, we have a unique opportunity to experience the immediate “effects” of extending ourselves to others:  Be it through tucking personal notes into greeting cards, serving hot meals at a soup kitchen, walking or playing with abandoned pets at a local animal shelter, visiting shut-ins, or taking one lonely child carolling or to see her first Christmas lights display, we find the immediate sense of warmth and joy derived from giving the gift of Self to be so much more fulfilling than the short-lived tummy tickle the giving of any object could possibly bring.  Though money might be scarce, this year has the potential to be one of the most lavishly rich seasons of your life.  Happy Holidays!

Posted by Karen Hadalski at 1 December 2011

Category: Uncategorized

Welcome!  This is the first of many blogs I will aim to post every Thursday. I would love to hear what topics are of special interest to you.  In addition to subjects written about in my books, I am especially drawn to topics regarding nature and animals/pets. I have authored the bi-monthly column, “Perspectives,” in Pet Tails Magazine, for many years, now. This is a local publication, available in the Hampton Roads, Virginia area.  However, some of my articles have been reprinted in other publications, including Pet New Zealand, and past issues are available at the www.pettailsmagazine.com web site for anyone to read. I am always interested in hearing about insights, experiences, concerns, and suggestions for future article topics that animal lovers and pet owners are willing to share. (Some months I am especially grateful for those “suggestions!”) Biography is also a special interest of mine. When a graduate student at Boston College I was awarded a research assistantship grant to assist Professor John J. McAleer in the fact-gathering efforts which laid the groundwork for the writing of his biography of Ralph Waldo Emerson: Ralph Waldo Emerson: Days of Encounter. During this same time, I worked as a part-time copy editor on Harvard (Radcliffe) University’s biographical dictionary project, Notable American Women, and have been hooked on the genre ever since.  I recently completed a work entitled, Ten Difficult Women: Their Impact and Legacy and really enjoyed both researching and writing this book. I will talk more about this project in the future. Stay in touch…

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